On the outside, my clients are highly successful leaders. But on the inside they felt strained, conflicted or like a mess because it cost them their relationships and happiness. I help them win at both. Because you shouldn’t have to sacrifice, neglect, or postpone one for the other.
You can’t buy happiness, but I can guide you there.
You are a 6 figure + professional.
A high performer and achiever.
A leader and a pace-setter.
A forward thinker and a purpose-driven entrepreneur...
...and yet you want more. When you look at your life from the outside, by all accounts you are a high performer and successful. But on the inside, your life is a mess, and so you're unhappy. Wherever you go, whatever you overcome and accomplish, that mess seems to keep following you like a shadow. It feels almost fated that this is your lot in life.
The problem is while you're an achiever in your career, something or someone paid the price for your success and is now suffering for it. And the daily grind of juggling what you have is already overwhelming and draining. It’s costing you time, energy, confidence, and happiness. How can you take on more? You feel stuck: You want to balance having real, loving and connected relationships, achieving even more, and having more meaning, but how do you do that with what you already have? In the meantime, you stay strong and keep up appearances because that’s what leaders do.
You doubt if you have what it takes, wonder if you're good enough, or if you even deserve it. It’s all so much. You likely have other self-destructive patterns taking a toll too. This has gone on for so long they're on the verge of using substance abuse, losing their business and/or personal relationships, or already have.
You may even feel guilty because maybe you should just be happy what you have, right? I say NO! It’s in our nature to want more. It’s okay to be a high achiever and be happy too! So why is it so hard for people to have both? Nobody should have to pick one over the other, or otherwise settle and stagnate.
Now ask yourself, what will your future look like if you don't? If nothing really changes in your business, relationships, or life? If you continue to suffer and feel as if you're going nowhere? With these internal distractions, coupled with external demands and challenges, there's not much time left at the end of the day to think strategically about the future. Without this, many people get the same results year after year. What's that cost you? How much will it cost you in the future?
How many of you have spent 10's of thousands of dollars on therapy or personal growth but still feel that something was missing? Or came home from courses so energized about your breakthroughs and all the new possibilities of what your life can be! Only to run into a series of speed bumps then plunge into a low because of unmet expectations? Or read books or watched videos, and you get the message, but can't seem to apply it to your life as easily? HOW do you take ACTION on what you learned and turn it into revolutionary and decisive habits?
Here's the problem:
1. We have patterns of thinking and behaving that contribute to and intensify uncomfortable situations. That causes both internal and external conflict. That block us from moving forward. That takes a toll over time.
2. Furthermore, most programs spend a lot of time delivering great content. They take you and everyone else through powerful, yet one size fits all, processes. Then they invite you to continue learning with them to deepen your education with another standardized course. This is the old way.
The issues with the old way:
1. They don't always have enough time to give us personalized, guided attention to uncovering what specifically, in our subconscious programming, is acting as our blind spot that's keeping us stuck seemingly just 3 feet from gold. Because if we knew what those blind spots were, they wouldn't be an issue, would they?
2. They don't have a process to help us integrate the finer points into our everyday lives. Or guide us to become aware of the subtle nuances about our own programs or environment that could sabotage us in the future.
It's not a good or bad thing, it just is. Don't get me wrong, I'm a huge advocate for ongoing education. I attend them myself to keep current, and I encourage anyone to always continue learning!
However, sometimes you may need personalized attention from someone who can surgically dissect an issue. Then construct the quickest and most effective process to get the results and make it stick!
Sometimes even though you have a breakthrough, you may need someone to create new, supporting beliefs and habits around it. To help you have a strategy in place when things don't go your way to deviate from the path. To customize a way to integrate it into your life.
And it's nice to have someone by your side who's intimately and intuitively familiar with this work to guide you along the way.
Here's where I come in. I am not a coach. I'm a transformation strategist for your relationship and business. I do a laser-like analysis to uncover and neutralize any of your subconscious, limiting beliefs that have held you back in the past. In essence you are upgrading and updating the software in you mind! We'll also create a new, healthier belief to replace the outdated one. Finally, we will customize a plan to help you integrate it into your life. When you’re done, we’ll have uncovered and defined your unique core values and integrated it into all areas of your life.
And, most importantly, give you some no-nonsense, tough love to hold you accountable to your plan. Because getting a six pack is simple, keeping it is the hard work.
My aim is not to have ongoing sessions for the same issue. In fact, I pride myself in eliminating a new layer with every session. We get to the root cause and resolve the issue once and for all. I also equip you with what you need to maintain your progress. Then we move on to tackle any other issues that may arise. It’s a do-with process so it’s on you to practice. But you’re a professional, so hard work and focus is not new to you. If I can't achieve this with you, I'll let you know so you find someone who can. That way, neither of us wastes our time. And you can count on absolute discretion.
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All my best,
"Certified Mindset Badass!"